Maria Bazhenova Biography
Publishing from Bazhenov “We have a walker without support, I removed all possible fasteners, it can sit in them and get up, for our diagnosis it is very good. I completely understand him - the intelligence of Dani is preserved. He also knows how to unfasten the zipper himself, is a fork - for such children, fine motor skills are very complicated. This is a tremendous everyday work.
I taught him to eat with a fork throughout the year. Every day we sat down, and I showed with my hand, at some point it began to turn out. When his son was very small, his hands were spasmodic in his fists, it was hard to unclench them, and now he is clapping his hands. He distinguishes colors, animals, fruits and vegetables, knows numbers, ”Maria shares her son's successes.
Now Dani has a chance that he can walk. From the blog: “What do I love most in my motherhood? What before I could not even think. What each of us should learn. Rejoice at every little success - a new sound, letter, phrase, gesture. To rejoice when your child does not want to study and pretend, realizing that he has a mind in order to cunning. To rejoice when you see that he was interested in some most ordinary things-be it a Christmas tree for the New Year or something else.
To rejoice when he simply bit off a piece of tomato, independently taking it from the table without your help and bringing it to his mouth. ” The simulators on which the boy is engaged in are standing at the Bazhenovs in the apartment and in the country. Maria admits that their day with Danya is scheduled literally minutes. There we brush our teeth, wash ourselves and go cook breakfast.
He loves to help me, give something or wash dishes. After we are going to a rehabilitation center. On average, we are engaged in the institution for a month, two weeks - a break. Danya is already used to this regime, it is even easier for him if rehabilitation is ongoing. When the rehabilitation is serious, for example, in Kazan, where the program is more complicated, we come already tired, lunch, go to daytime sleep or rest.
In the evening we walk, look at cartoons, play developers, read books. In the summer we went to the country, Danya bathed in an inflatable pool, we dived in Kazan, ”the girl shared. According to Maria, she is engaged in her personal affairs at night, including a hobby that brings her funds to pay for treatment. From the blog: “Every day, laying down toys and all excuses, we begin training, so that on one of the sunny days Danilka stood from the stroller and take its first steps.
Timid, awkward, but so long -awaited. So that I could not hold back the tears of joy. So that, looking back, we exhale: “Cerebral palsy. Now these are just letters. Three letters that we were able to win. ” At first she was engaged in visualization, and now - paper decor and epoxy products. The sale of handmade brings funds to the family, but they still do not have enough, since rehabilitation costs a lot of money.
Therefore, Maria organizes fees on her page, holds lotteries. But the girl helps not only to her son - in the winter of the year she became a volunteer. I go to an orphanage in Mokshan. In that year, in Penza, I announced a collection of things, they were brought by caring residents, after which I sorted clothes and took them to the children. Also for the New Year they collected gifts to children, I was able to organize and find who would buy what.
We also purchased materials, and made cosmetic repairs in the adult block. In general, once every two months I try to go to children, and I call up with graduates almost every day, ”Maria shared. From the blog: "Sometimes, it seems that I am not iron, and I think:" This afternoon I will definitely lie down and sleep with Dania. " And when an hour -round comes - Danilka fell asleep, cheers, lie down and sleep, - Gulfia wakes up in me, who repeats in my head: “They don’t sleep in the afternoon!
A day is a time of fruitful work, ”I remember my entire list of affairs, it starts to swallow it, I get up to do things while“ free ”. And if it turns out to sleep, then I go and smoke myself for the lost time, but how to get together and where to get strength if even doctors do not believe in your child? It was this topic that Maria raised in her blog. So, she said, looking at Danya that she would not take him to class, as she sees gross mental retardation.
Honestly, I roared very much when I came home, but wiped my tears and then stubbornly dealt with the child. A lot of specialists in Russia are sure that the lack of speech is a gross delay in intelligence, mental retardation. With their “labels” they kill in their parents hope and faith in the child, instead of telling the desired path. This was upset and always wildly outraged, because I always knew that Danya is a smart guy, ”Maria wrote.
She also said that in her life there were situations when people turned away from them with Danya on the street and leading children on the sites away. There are active children. It happens that the boy is suitable for playing, and mom screams to the whole site: "Move away from him, do not come." Now I do not condemn them, my opinion is that they are afraid to harm, ”Penzhaka shared.Maria noted that in Penza there is a unification of mothers of special children where they communicate with each other, give advice and support each other.
From the blog: “Our society is not adapted to special children. If someone sees a screaming child, then the first thought: “What non-voceroned! What kind of mother cannot reassure!
One of the main goals of my blog here is to give food for thought to those who still condemn such children and parents. To push people to tolerance and tolerance. ” Maria Bazhenova sincerely believes that Danya will be able to walk himself, because for this he has a huge potential. The text was prepared by Svetlana Khromova is registered by the Federal Service for Supervision of Communications, Information Technologies and Mass Communications Roskomnadzor.
Founder - State Autonomous Institution of the Penza Region "Media Holding" Express ". The editor -in -chief is Balashova Anna Olegovna. Penza, st. Markina, d.