Biography of Maharbek Khadartsev
The beauty, the mayor and their ten children are beautiful, the mayor and their ten children Victoria Jatiev, the wife of the head of Vladikavkaz Makharbek Khadartseva, is a non -public person. But each of its rare photos in social networks - family or selfie - causes a stormy discussion. The reason is understandable: a slender blonde has ten children. What is it to have a large family, Victoria said "this is the Caucasus." Photo: Family Archive of Victoria Jatieva Victoria Jatiev “After the wedding, my husband said: Five - Necessarily,” they would tell me in my youth that I will have ten children, would never believe it.
Thought three - the maximum. After the wedding, the husband said: "Five - necessarily, then at will." In a joke, of course. But see how it happened? Will there be more? This is already as God will decide. We have six sons and four daughters. For all sons, the names begin on “A”, for all daughters - on “M”. The most unusual of them is probably the second girl.
We were busy with her health, so my husband’s friend gave the name. Wow, ”I was surprised. Then I got used to it. At home we call her Misha. Most often, unfamiliar and new acquaintances ask me the question: “Is this all their own? Sometimes, seeing bewilderment, I speak ahead, without waiting for a question. Each day of my days has been starting with the smiles and tenderness of my children for many, many years.
And this is the main thing that I am grateful to God and my husband. She is 25 years old »Photo: Family Archive of Victoria Jatieva - recently my masseuse says:“ My son is friends with yours. And somehow he told me: “Mom, did you see his mother? She is 25 years old, how could he be her son? Of course, it's nice. But, you know, not so long ago I wore three children under the heart and weighed more than a hundred kilograms.
And now I know that how you adhere to proper nutrition, so you should continue to do this by learning that you are expecting a child. Even more. Take vitamins, there is everything useful. And not the way I once thought: I am pregnant, which means it is omnivorous and the bottom. The body is no longer a girl, with excess weight will not cope, as in 20, we need efforts.
Yes, once my husband woke me up at dawn and persistently called me for charging, and I, almost crying, asked to take pity and let me sleep. Now I don’t need to force me, I myself will make me. I adhere to proper nutrition, three days a week Pasha in the hall, I run in the morning. I do not like this business, but sometimes I still read comments on my address on the Internet.
And there from time to time: "Yes, with her money I would not be like that yet." Why do you need money to get up in the morning and run? Or squat? Or in order not to drink fried potatoes of a brown? Of course, money gives life comfort, but they cannot give willpower. Photo: Family Archive of Victoria Jatieva “Our Children are not Belarusian” - there are things that are not discussed.
For example, this applies to households. I have house assistants, and it seems to me natural with such a large family. But the fact that our children are not Belarusian is a fact. They know that this is necessary, but that they do not argue and do not blazing work on each other, in the most prominent place there is a duty schedule. Whose turn, he removes, washes the dishes.
On weekends, all together under the control of the pope put things in order in the yard. Of course, these are not forced measures. We have the opportunity to pamper children, do not strain them with anything and only indulge in all desires. But which of them will grow? My husband grew up in a simple rural family. In the fourth grade, he already worked as a postman. This is a fairly large village, and when you are small, distances always seem more.
In the rain, snow, heat - he walked on foot and dragged all these weights, carrying mail all over the village. Husband is a famous athlete, champion, politician Maharbek Khadartsev-two-time Olympic champion, five-time world freestyle wrestling champion, ex-deputy of the State Duma. All that he has was given to him and then. And medals, and money, and opportunities.
And his main desire is that his children are educated and useful. And when he sees that they understand and share his desires, ready for any concessions. For example, the eldest daughter reported that she would like to try to go to Oxford. I thought my husband would not agree. Still, a girl, one, without a family, in a foreign country. But the husband was only delighted. He said: “Why not?
She is smart, she tries.
And I'm sure that she should get. ” Photo: Family Archive of Victoria Dzatieva Papino rule - At the dining table, we do not sit with phones. In general, you can only have phones in our family from 10 years old. I understand that now children in the first grade are already going with mobile. But dad has such a rule. Of course, the younger ones look at the elders, ask. So far, IPad is available only a couple of hours on weekends.
I do not understand the family in which there are children and there is no regime. A tired husband comes home from work, and at home until 12 at night the children are fought and the mother is nervous: “Make lessons! Breakfast, lunch, dinner, sleep - we have everything at the time allotted for this. So I grew up, and so my children are growing. Sons go to dancing and playing sports. Girls only for dancing.
One also draws. Therefore, we have athletes, dancers and artist at home. It doesn't happen boring.Photo: Family Archive of Victoria Jatieva about letters to Santa Claus - children can hint at a gift what they would like to get on their birthday. But they know that on our parental decision to buy them one or another gift is affected by their behavior, their successes at school. And if children do not receive what they want, then they have not finalized.
And all this is accepted with dignity, without tantrums. Although there is one festive tradition, when we still try to give exactly what they are waiting for. Before the New Year, children write letters to Santa Claus. These letters come to the dad for work. And most often we are talking about some kind of toy, sports accessory and other things. But once my daughter asked Santa Claus a living rabbit.
There is only one day before the holiday, all desires are taken into account, everyone has been bought what they dream about, but where to find a living rabbit in Vladikavkaz on the last day of the outgoing year? We searched, but found.